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UP FRONT In this essay the reader is invited to consider two creative supports for youth ministry/catechesis that can occur when parishes collaborate. In the first section we imagine a pastoral scenario in which three parishes collaborate to hire, share, and retain a youth ministry director, leading them toward some unanticipated benefits. Following that scenario we consider how these parishes fostered quality formation experiences, not only for youth but for the adults as well. To make it happen, the leaders in these three parishes had to overcome some obstacles that prevent collaboration. A Pastoral Scenario The leaders crafted a plan to hire a full-time youth ministry director to work among the youth of the three parishes. By collaborating in hiring and programming, the leaders reasoned that they could find and retain a minister with theological education, ministry training, and pastoral experience who could be well compensated with salary and benefits. This plan of five years ago has come to pass, and with great success. It has meant less financial burden for each parish, more spaces for functions that serve youth as they move among the parishes’ facilities, and it respects the reality that people no longer live or practice faith only within their parish borders. The youth minister was not the first “shared” minister to serve these three parishes, however. Today the professional youth ministry director works closely with the director of adult formation, who collaborates among the three parishes (she is based at St. Claire’s) and the full-time parish life coordinator from St. Theresa’s. Together they have served all three parishes effectively for the past five years. Because all these ministers are well educated and current in their field, they spend dedicated time praying and creatively planning together. They “work smart” as well, not overlapping or duplicating activities or offerings. They place high priority on activities that promote faith sharing and important conversation between adults and teens. Most of all, they do not compete for a head count of people to come to their events and offerings, as some parishes do. What began as a modest cooperation has blossomed into shared faith across parish borders. Any visitor quickly notices that the sharing is substantial and vibrant. Today one finds in all three parishes faith sharing among people of different generations, a focus on the word of God in the Sunday Eucharist (no matter in which building it is celebrated), with several chances weekly and/or monthly to enrich their spirituality. Some activities—open to parishioners of all ages—include reflection groups, meditation groups, social action teams, and outreach, held at any of the three locations and sometimes in people’s homes. Recently the outreach program has focused on home visits and invitations to inactive Catholic adults to become involved in the parish. But a hallmark of the parish coalition is the consistent personal invitation by teens to other teens in the area to join them for an hour or a lifetime. It appears that there is indeed strength in numbers, as these teens also serve the food pantry and the neighborhood rebuilding project not far from their churches, giving them cause for barrier-breaking contact with some teens who have not felt welcomed before now. The net effect in the past five years has been heartening for the congregations: more interesting and a greater variety of opportunities for adult faith formation, greater cooperation between the parishes and the various volunteer ministers in forming the faith of teens, even greater face-recognition and more “hellos” among former strangers as they travel the area’s supermarkets, schools, and shopping malls. Activities geared to teens are well attended, and there is a spirit of friendship that pervades the youth catechetical efforts, as the teens introduce new people into the group. Across the generations, people are finding that talking about their faith with others, even with teenagers to whom they are not related, gives them renewed hope in the future of the church even as it makes for an interesting, even exciting, present moment. It is clear that the next challenge is to foster more serious conversation about faith and to offer people resources to go deeper in theological study, spiritual direction, and engagement in the works of justice. There is always room to grow in faith, but the leaders are grateful that they traversed parish borders to serve youth. While the needs of youth may have provided an initial focus, the new life that exists within and among all three parishes offers an example of the benefits of creative pastoral formation for all generations. A Multi-Parish Response to a Real Need The leaders who once crossed parish borders to register concern about the faith lives of teens are not alone. The findings of the National Study on Youth and Religion (NSYR) completed in 2005 are especially troubling to Catholic adults. The NSYR concludes that Catholic youth ages 12 to 18 trail most of their peers in their ability to express what they believe and to identify adults around them with whom they could and would pursue faith questions. The findings, summarized in the published text Soul Searching: The Religious and Spiritual Lives of American Teenagers (Oxford, 2005), prompt parents, catechists, pastors, lay ministers, and bishops to reassess the practices of youth formation among Catholic teenagers in the United States and to redouble efforts to improve them. (1) Parents matter! To a very large extent they influence the religious lives and attitudes of their teenage children; teens tend to “embody and reproduce the larger adult world of which they are a part,” reflecting either the religious commitment or religious laxity of their parents. Parents may find this either consoling or upsetting, but it appears that teens are quite conventional in following the religious path of commitment or mediocrity or disengagement that their parents trod. (2) The greater the supply of opportunities to practice faith through activities, programs, and relationships, the more likely teens will be religiously engaged and invested. The authors of Soul Searching note that Protestant youth in the representative sample belong to churches with full-time paid, professional youth ministers about twice as often as Catholic youth; 37-44 percent Protestant respondents have a full-time youth minister on their church staff, compared with 21 percent of the Catholic respondents. The Catholic parishes’ lack of financial and personnel commitment to youth appears especially pressing when considered alongside the level of commitment exercised by Protestant congregations toward their teens. And the parents’ response points to a correlative story: Catholic parents of teenagers in the study were “noticeably less likely than other Christian parents to say that their church has been very or extremely supportive of them as parents of teens.” One important step toward addressing the faith needs of teens is to equip them with various opportunities to grow and to meet adult mentors and role models (beyond their parents) who take their own faith seriously. If the parish institutional resistance or “drag” against this commitment stems from either a lack of money or lack of critical mass of adult mentors or both, then the story of the combined effort among the three parishes above offers one way to remove the resistance and enhance formation for all age groups. Overcoming Silo Thinking The philosopher of science Ludwig von Bertalanffy is credited with establishing the term “systems thinking” in the scientific community, a term that has come into common use in various other disciplines. It has been adapted to the business world. The insight of Bertalanffy as applied to business—that a system is a set of elements standing in relation—challenges organizational leaders to think expansively about the elements that stand in relation to the people they seek to serve and the elements within the organization as they interact. Silo thinking, the antithesis of systems thinking, would have us imagine that elements stand not in relation to each other but stand alone, with only the mandate to adapt in order to survive, not thrive. While theories from science and business do not always apply cleanly to the church, we can see in this foundational yet simple insight strong links to the story of the three parishes. They practiced a kind of systems thinking in reaching across the borders of their respective parishes, which they did not regard as silos, in order to address the needs of teens within the complex systems that teens (and adults) inhabit. They rejected the silo thinking that would have them imagine or assume one minister per parish, with each minister seeking to generate enthusiasm and involvement among teens for the same activities, often in competition with each other’s parishes. They transcended the small notion that one minister “takes care of” all the parish teens. The three parishes in our story have imagined the elements that form Christians to transcend the usual lines of distinction of “programs” aimed at discrete generations, who then rarely intersect with each other for meaningful conversation about faith. The three parishes instead tended to an environment and established situations that promote conversation across the generations, serving both teens and adults. They offered a chance for adults to hone the skills they may have lacked to talk with teens, and they offered the teens the role models they may have lacked or were too timid to approach within other systems. The systems thinking of this inter-parish cooperation also has an evangelizing effect, because the neighborhood witnesses a cooperation rarely found in their local scene, having few analogues in local politics or civic life. But in order to do this, the leaders of all three parishes had to meet head-on and name squarely the insidious and damaging effects of the market competition mindset in ministry. The leaders of the three parishes overcame the tendency toward market competition and faced the underlying fears that fuel such competition: fears that parishioners would “defect” from one parish to the other, or withhold their financial contributions, or object to innovation and vote with their feet. When church renewal is based on market competition and not on discernment of gospel values, then the parish becomes little more than a poorly run business. Conclusion |
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